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writes:hi well here's the story and its long but i really need help so please read it all. im a girl, I'M 13 and i spent the night at my friend M's house last night and my other friend C spent the night too. we went to M's house right after school and we walked around town n stuff. we got to M's house and played truth or dare and M picked C and i had to call my mom so i left the room i got back and they didnt tell me the dare and i was sitting there and C came closer to me and then she was guna kiss me on the cheek cause it was the dare but i turned to her and we kissed on the lips for like 5 seconds and M was like wow. For some reason we kissed again. oh C is a girl by the way... and she purposely kept getting close to me and touching my hand. i didnt mind and when we were going to bed C slept in the middle and M and i slept to the left and right of her on the bed. C kept rubbing her feet against mine and she took my hand and put it on top of hers and then she put her arm around me and we feel asleep. M was already asleep. The next mouring C gave me a kiss on the cheek and that woke me up. What should i do? Is she bi or something? I think i liked it when she kissed me. Is all of this wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 First off, kissing feels good because of the contact. Our bodies are wired to respond to a touch on our lips. There is NO wire telling us to only react if the touch comes from a certain sex. Lips are lips and lips are good to kiss.
You are young and expermenting with sex. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions based on this. Lots of kids have same sex experiences even if they grow up to be hetero. On the other hand many people only come out of the closet way into their adult life.
Just chalk it up to experience. In many societies people kiss on the lips as a greeting. So you liked it. Perhaps you will in future decide that kissing girls is something you prefer. Or maybe there will be a boy you really want to kiss. Time will tell and right now you got plenty of time.
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Sorry, "anonymous", but I don't think this is all down to the dare; if it were simply that, C wouldn't have done those things in bed, especially as M was already asleep and not available to be impressed!Questioner, you and C are just starting on your sexual journey through life, and are not sure which routes to take: it's fine to explore them all.Why not talk to her about it when you are on your own, without M around? It may be a little awkward at first, but you will soon know if she has any feelings towards you and liked what happened.From the bed activity, it certainly sounds like she has. If so, I wish you luck and lots of pleasure - let us all know how you get on, please.Harry.
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reader, malum424 +, writes (3 May 2009):
 First off no there is nothiong wrong with this. 13 is a weird age your body is starting to change and your sexaul inertest is starting to devople. It maybe that you enjoyed it because of your feelings of friendship, and kinship, but like i said no there is nothing wrong with your kiss or the feeling of enjoyment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): It OK - no its not wrong -Its not weird to get a bit confused about yr sexuality when you are your age,it happens a bit and it doesnt necessarily automatically mean that u or her are bi or gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay at all. Lots of girls and guys go through a stage where they are attracted to ppl of the same sex - it might have been just a one time thing and in a few days u will go back thinking about guys.
Like u said it was a dare and she might have just been playing up to that and things will probably go back to normal and it will all be forgotten & laughed about as a good joke. But.. the might be a chance thatshe might also like you and the dare game was a good excuse to kiss you. Do u like her more than a friend? if you do thats OK but make sure she feels the same way for real before you do anything about your feelings, i mean dont go telling her u liked it or u like her unless she gives u a sign that she feels the same way too. feelings are easy to say but you can undo what u say after u say it.! try to relax and go with things be her freind, see what happens.
u will be ok - this sounds like a probabaly one time thing - girls having fun, its happens a lot - you are OK
hope this helps u in some way
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