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writes:HelloHis 17 and i am 16Basically I fancy my brothers friend and yesterday my brother and his girlfriend went outside and told him in my front garden if he fancies me and he just said no my brothers girlfriend called me and he said to me “Look sorry but don’t take as in a bad way but I don’t like you in that way sorry and I replied “erm.. Is alright with a smile my brother and his girlfriend is a bitch she wasn’t suppose to tell him and I don’t know why he said he don’t like me what about the signs?And also when he told me that I went in with a smile and went upstairs and cried my eyes out BUT after I came out and ignored him and he just kept staring at me and looking so I went along. I don’t get it? ??????The signs he gave me where:• Staring at me in to my eyes• Makes me laugh• Comes out and knocks on my door too see me NOT my brother once asked where I was.• Sometimes stays out in my garden to wait till I come out.• Both like each other BUT he does not show it only when my brother is not there.• Sometimes gets in to my personal space• Gets jealous when I talk to his mate or if I pull him away and chat with him he will notice.• Looks at me when he's talking to other people• Says hi to me or just stares in to my eyes• Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual• Eyebrows raise when they he sees me• Eyes get "soft" when he looks at me• Hangs around with me sometimes BUT mostly stands and talks to my brother and just stares at me BUT does not make it that obvious• Puts his hands in his trousers• Says dumb things just to keep you talking e.g. likes says to my brother “Oh if you don’t do this then I might “give you a lap dance” lollAnd know am not even going to go outside anymore…Why did he do this?But know has been comming out allot in my front garden:S
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reader, Reeta  +, writes (3 May 2009):
I've had something similar happen to me. Years ago I had a crush on my brother's best friend and I knew he liked me too, but he wouldn't admit it to anyone, and even less to my brother, for fear of losing him as a friend. If your brother's friend is going through the same thing, then that would explain why he acts differently when there are more people around and when you two are alone. Or it could also be that he really appreciates you and that's why he's so friendly with you. But judging from your instincts and impressions, there could very possibly be something more than only friendship feelings. It's so common that brother's friends fall for the sisters.. I've seen it happen plenty of times and it's happened to me more than twice, too. It takes some time alone (you and him) to find out if he really likes you. You could try to tease him a little and see how he reacts, for instance. But don't wait forever for him to show more interest. Go and see other boys, have fun.. if he likes you for real you'll see it more clearly then;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Hi, those signs sounds like a guy who fancies a girl, you are obviously picking up on the vibes so why dont you just as him yourself, you never know he may have felt embarassed when your brother and his girlfriend put him on the spot and asked him that. Next time hes about just approach him with confidence and slip a quiet word that you want to speak to him, when you havethe chance just smile and ask does he want to go to town or cinema etc. its only goingto rip you up not knowing, always quesitoning his every move. Either way you can be put out of your misery and get on with it. and tell your brother to stay out of your buisness lol. hope this helps gd luck
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