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writes:is it ok to talk to exes in the long run of life ? i broke up with my girlfriend and we have agreed to talk after some months. till then no calls, texts etc... But she was madly in love with me whereas i just liked her more than a friend.idk, what will be her state after some months. but still, is it ok to talk to exes if one of them is really having a hard time without the other i suppose or even when both of them have completely moved on? i personally feel that even when both have got over each other, the soft corner or traces remain and it is safe to keep distance or talk once in a while and not negotiate on talking time is it ok to add her on facebook ?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 May 2009):
You should only add her when you know she is ready to be your friend again and is over you.
If she's in love with you this could only give her hope that you miss her and therefore may want to get back together.
Plus it's going to be cruel to add her and then for her to see other girls chatting to you and photos of you out having fun with them.
Add her when you know she is ready.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): yes it can be - sometimes they can be the best friends you ever have. You have shared something with them that few people will share.
So my vote is yes its ok - but sometimes there is another motive - and thats what to watch for.
Star.x.
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