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writes:A month ago my went out of town for a few weeks with another woman and lied to me about it. We have tried to talk, but nothing is getting resolved, we start therapy this week, but I am not hopeful. Well, a few days ago he left this note in my car, it was kind of like he re-wrote vows to me. Some of them were sweet, but most of them made it seem like he really doesn't get it. But he is acting like since he wrote me a note (three weeks later which I'm not too happy it even took that long) that i should just be all lody dah about it. It seems he finally is getting that I am really mad about his lieing, but it still doesn't seem like he is doing anything to win my trust, or show he even care about staying with me. I guess my question would be, does it seem like this letter he wrote was is sincere? or did he just think it would shut me up and let things get back to the way they were? He is still lieing to me it seems. Like not even a day or two will go by with out some kind of lie or deceit. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): From what you have written, it seems that this guy is taking you for a ride by playing with your emotions. My advice to you would be to get out of this relationship asap. You deserve better than that.
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reader, malum424 +, writes (3 May 2009):
 When it comes to the note I'll have to say a bit of both he may really feel bad about what he did and was the note was to help you make you happy again. but it seems his lying to you is the really problem that he needs to work now.
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