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*nn84
writes:Dear Cupid,I've met this guy in the work and we always see each other once in a week.and we started to talk about almost 3 months ago..In the first month he always text me called me.Everything went perfect..during 3 months we only hang out once..After that I asked to hang out with me 3 times he find an excuses..and He never asked me..I really cared about him and liked about him.He said me the same.He has a feeling and loved me but he didint do anything for being with me up to now. 2 weeks ago I said him that I cant stand this relationship I tried to do my best but You did nothing for me...He was so sorry and wanted me another chance and He begged me every time and he texted me so much to have an another chance..Guys when I said him that its over I cant stand this relatinship he said me that sorry It was my fault..He said me that he cant trust anygirl because his ex cheated him for about 3 years ago and thats why he thought everygirl will hurt him too.I cant understand why he thought about me because I really cared and liked him and I was hurt....Last week he came to see me to my school...Actually This was the first time to made me suprise...but he said me that he was in my school and I text him I will be there ok...and he diditn pick up my calls or respind my texts..what a suprise...I was so sad...I emailed him that U are not ready for this relationship..he didint respond it.he may be not see my email..today I talked with him coldly and usualy before I get off the work I pass by him and said goodbye bbut this time I didint... and he didint text me like why didi u go without saying bye(because when I sometimes get off work without saying anything to him, he always text me and asked why didi u go) this tme he didint say anything...I want him to call me but on the other hand I try to forget him cause he really hurts me....Do u think what should I do or does he call me?
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reader, ann84 +, writes (3 May 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFRIENDTOM,
Thank u for giving me advice..U know man's game better than me...I just feel myself fool because in 3 months I always tried to do best he just said me sweet words..He didint show me that he loved me...
In the work I was usually happy...everybody loves me and called me Cheerful person but now I dont want to smile and I am not happy and while we were workng together I sometime saw him talking with another girls or pretends nothing happened between me or him he just said me hello but I want him out of my life he hurts me....
How can I deal with this?
SATINDESIRE,
Thank you for advice
While we were talking this situation before we broke up, I said him I wanted to call me ortext me or to ask me out...Do u know wat he said me these are the part of relationshp and he didint do anythng
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Ann84, I am a guy, so my view may be different from others. But, I am on your side, hon. And I will be honest. I think you should drop this guy. He is playing games with you. Some guys do this. I don't know why. They just like the game. You are to young and honest and open to let someone do this to you. There are good men out there who want an honest girl like you. Do not sell yourself short. Forget this gamester and look for one of the "good guys" (smile). The fact you dumped him will make you very attractive to many men you may not even know are watching. And some are, I promise you. If it is not them, they will introduce you to someone. Men do look for good women to introduce to brothers, nephews, etc. I hope you take what I say in the spirit it is meant. I don't know how strongly you feel or anything. But, this guy just does not sound right to me. I don't think he wants a committed relationship with any woman. So, it has nothing to do with you. Keep a good opinion of yourself. You are special. Look for a special guy. Best wishes, honey, Tom
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