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I was going to ask him out in a few days but now I'm not sure

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Question - (3 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ayfinnigan writes:

okay i like this boy and he likes me too. everything was going great last week.. until friday. we were speaking and smiling and everything to each other. but on friday i seen him at lunch at school and he walked past and i think he said hi to me but i didn't hear him, and now he says he hates me? is he just saying that because hes annoyed that i didnt say hi, because everyone says he REALLY REALLY likes me, and on his arm on friday it had our intials on it. does he still like me? i was going to ask him out in a few days but im not sure now, now that i think he doesnt like me? please help me:(?

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A female reader, Roxy1989 Australia +, writes (3 May 2009):

Roxy1989 agony aunthe likes you ;) he just proberly felt rejected because he thought you ignorned him. By not asking him out .. you're throwing what you have away ,he definitly wont ask you out because he thinks that you ignored him ,surprise him and ask him out ,what have you got to lose?Put him out of his misery :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009):

well i would just ask him.

dont try working out whats going on in his head cos with so many signs you can easily get it wrong. so just ask him simply.

hope this has helped and please could yourate my answer

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A female reader, lynda121 United Kingdom +, writes (3 May 2009):

lynda121 agony auntHiya,

This sounds very confusing hun, what you need to do though is talk to him maybe say hi to him and see what reaction you get and if he seems ok with you then give a couple of days to get things back how they was before your little misunderstanding then go for it!

He was probably feeling a little embarrassed when you didn't say hi back to him and he maybe thought that he'd done something wrong too, he also sounds like a shy person because if he likes you how come he hasn't asked you out yet...

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A female reader, Reeta Belgium +, writes (3 May 2009):

Hi jayfinnigan,

Sounds like this guy is thinking the same as you. If he greeted you and you didn't greet him back because you didn't hear him, he could be thinking that you have something against him and that you're not taking him seriously.

I'd suggest that you make the move (ask him out) soon in case he's losing patience. If he really likes you, your doubts will be gone just as fast as they appeared ;)

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