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*irlwantinhim
writes:Im in a relationship and have been for nearly two months. I dont really like relationships so when i do get into one its no long term.The first few weeks was great he took me to the movies, we met each others parents and i think its fair to say that i really liked him.There was one problem, we had sex for the first time about a week into the relationship and from then on we did it everytime i went to his. It was fun but i started to get quite bored of it, so one day i told him i was not quite up for it he was quite funny with me, so we ended up doing it again.It got to a point when i started lying to him so i wouldnt have to do it like id say that it was that time of the month again but he still wanted to have foreplsy. I talked to my friend about it and i told her i thought he was using me. I didnt really know whether that was what he was doing but it really did seem that way.But then he stopped ringing me which was wierd because he used to ring me every day, so for about 9 days we never seen each other and we never spoke. Then when we finally did get in touch on the phone, the first thing he asked was whether i wanted to go to his so yet again i lied to him and said i was busy.He then passed his driving test and he drove to my house. I couldnt pluck up the courage to speak to him so i pretended that nothing was up.Since he came to my house that night we have seen each other once and have not had sex.Do you think he is using me for sex? And does he only ever ring me when he knows i will go to his house? help me please x Reply to this Question
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reader, girlwantinhim +, writes (4 May 2009):
girlwantinhim is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hello everyone,
Thank you for your advice you have all been alot of help and i am highly greatful
thanks xx xx
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Sex seems to be the only reason he calls you and wants to be with you so, yes I think he is using you. Get rid of him and when he calls you to come over, don't lie. Tell him the truth and say you're not gonna sit there and be used. You'll find a guy that's everything you want and doesn't use you and respects you.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Yes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): I think he is using you - and since you aren't as obliging he is not so interested.
I don't think he is that into you - go find someone who is, someone that will do more than take off your knickers. Find someone who will love you and take time to know you first.
Find someone really into you.
Star.x.
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