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Why am I always thinking of her?Its been too long

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Question - (3 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2009)
A male China age 41-50, *ayaddy writes:

hey,dear people. i really have a problem.i used to loved a girl in the college.she 's beautiful,so i try to court her.i do whatever i can do to make her like me,but she refused me.she don't like me and "you are nice guy but i don't like you…"so it's for 8 years ago.meantime we talk sometimes, we have different hobby,different circle,different value and she married 1 year ago.

now the questione is: why i can't forget her?am i sicko?i always dream about her . i talked to her i loved her so much ,why she don't like me and crying in dream.

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A male reader, sayaddy China +, writes (3 May 2009):

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sayaddy agony auntthanks so much ,it's really helpful.i'm thinking about my past all the time to figure out what's happening.believe me,when these dream shows time by time.i start to looking for the reasons.but the dreams shows no law,sometimes i feel so good and it shows,i don't know why?

but my most childhood is fantasy.just one thing, my mom lost me one day,someone found me and take me to her.i really forget most details.i thought maybe this is why.but why this girl,i love this girl's face.she's beautiful,but not especially i thought maybe she just like the person

who take me to my mom.some psychological theory talked these.called lover's face.but think all of these can't take away the dream,i dream her and be abandoned just the same.

thanks again,stranger.most thanks to you and hoping you happy everyday.

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