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writes:Hi..im 14 years old and i really really like this boy and i feel so good around him when im talkin to him on the phone or by him..im really just wondering should i ask him out or wait on him to ask me out??I never really felt this way over a boy before..NEVER..its something he does that makes me crazy over him and im pretty sure he feels the same way about way because the way he acts around me and he already be sayin that im his girlfriend or babymama.this boy even told me over the phone out of the blue that he love me and i was so speechless because i never expected it,but i really think he meant it..i mean i really like this boy so much that i want to have kids by him and marry him..HELP ME!!!..please what should i do?..Thank You For All The Help You Provide.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): cool - it was the rush of your words.....ask him out - the only think you will get is older if you wait....
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reader, pooh14 +, writes (4 May 2009):
pooh14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you to all..um to your 1st question i am not really thinking about kids because i want to become a lawyer later on in the future i am just saying if i have a family i want it to be by him...and to the 2nd question is that he is 15 years old..me and him have been friends for a very very long time...i dont want kids right now bcuz i dont want them to ruin my life and i know what my sister nem go through..i will take all yall answers in consideration..thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Maybe you should be friends with him a bit longer so you are sure that he is somebody you can trust.but yes, ask him out :)You're so lucky x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Two questions, and PLEASE answer honestly.1. How are you already thinking about having kids?2. How old is he? Today, Age DOES matter, in the society and matters the Law.God damn it, I truly HATE society as much as I could hate a Dictator. Why for God's sake do media and all that shit bomb young people (teenagers especially) with sexuality, drugs as alcohol and tobacco, criminality and all that stuff and after ENRAGES as soon as the youth start reacting on this things?? I mean, it's pretty disappointing that parents overgive the responsability about putting these themes on the table to teachers, magazines and TV. A young person will always be easy to manipulate.pooh14, I knw what you are trying to say when you tell that you NEVER felt that way for anybody else. You are discovering the sometimes magical, but other times disgusting feeling of love. Just be careful, because you catched a train that will make full stops VERY often. You WILL get hurt, thats a fact, but you also will be happy, as happy as you won't have been ever before.My tip for you is to take your time. Stay friends for a little longer. It's okay to go together to the mall after school, even holding hands and that kind of thing. Maybe sitting together on a park bank and just saying anything (It sounds odd, but in that kind of moment, you WON'T say anything, believe me). The only thing that I recomend you: CLEAR THE BABY THING IDEA. Thats a NO GO in your age. If he is your class mate and you aren't thinking in having kids anymore, I think you should make your first contact with love.I hope I helped you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): you wait before you have kids etc. How do you know after only one? you have a box of chocolates in front of you and you only have one so that must be your favourite?
Ask him out :)
Just say hi do you fancy going for a coffee \ coke \ whatever you guys do....
and enjoy.
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