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*iiNx3021
writes:I was at my friend's house one night and her older brother was there (hes 27 and im 17) and ive always thought he was really fit but my friend has always warned me to stay away from him 1. because the age diffrence and 2.Its a simple rule you dont sleep with your friends siblings Well anyway .. we really hit it off nd started flirting nd stuff but nothin happend aa few days later we started texting Now we are sleeping with each other behind my friends back.he is staying with his parents at the minuteand we have to sneak about but ive got to know him nd i really like him now my friend knows im 'seeing' someone but doesnt know its her brother obv i dont want to lose my friendship with her and i know sleeping with her brother was wrong but i really like him now nd i cant help it we get on so well i'm not sure what to do , if i tell her everything will change his mum (she has knew me since i was born) will go mental at us nd i risk losing a really good friendshipBut i dont like lying to her and im sick of all the sneaking about.
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reader, KiiNx3021 +, writes (3 May 2009):
KiiNx3021 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has his own house,hes just waiting for the work hes getting done to it to move back in
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): I hate to come on and be the bitch but come on he is 27, going after a 17 year old, and living with his parents...doesn't that tell you something about him? Why can't he get a girl near his own age and live on his own? Older guys like this are losers and I know that may be diffucult to realize bacause you think he is awesome but he isn't! I don't care about any of his facts, he is 27 and sleeping with his little sisters 17 year old friend. What kind of a loser does that instead of finding a girl his at least like 4 or 5 years older? My sister who is 15 was dating a 22 year old and when I found out I was so mad at her. She said all this shit like "You don't understand, were in love!" blah blah blah, but I still told her that guys like that are assholes. Then she realized he was really like and when she broke up with him, he freaked out and hit her and then threatened to kill himself. Seriously, guys like this are LOSERS! If they weren't, why would they want someone your age instead of someone older and more experienced? And if this is a good friendship that you really care about, you should stop this and hope your friend and her mom never find out about it. I know this probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but guys like that are seriously pathetic people. Sorry to sound like such a bitch.
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reader, oneandonly?  +, writes (3 May 2009):
Break it off, and try and get everyones blessin first
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reader, cottongin  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 I could just be crazy, but if it will ruin a long time friendship/relationship with their parents, don't tell them. Continue to sneak around. You are still young, it is very likely you will eventually find somebody else you are interested in.
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