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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: This is a matter about my boyfriend, i have a feeling he is lying to me. Yesterday well he was visiting me i was sitting next to him on the couch when one of his mates called to ask if he and i will be going to motor practice on saturday and if we will be going with to prize giving cause he would like to book tickets. My boyfriend, jack, said that he will let send him, bob, a text message later. I heard the coversation so i kind of have an idea what the plans are for this weekend, yet when i asked jack what did bob say he said, ' there is prize giving on saturday for last years race, how cool is that,' he never told me a few story, so i was just wondering if there could be other things that he is only tell me half about? And if so, how will i confront him about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): When I feel in my gut that someone is lying...I usually trust my instincts! Sometimes I am right and sometimes I am wrong...and other time...I just don't know!
I always try to give a person the benefit of the doubt and tust people until they prove themselves untrustworthy!
Trust your instincts, but remember...that at times we look for things that really aren't there!
Communication, Honesty, and Trust are the foundation of every healthy happy relationship!
Your question was "how do I confront him?" Just talk to him, do not accuse, do not make more of it than it is...just open up the lines of communication!
Good Luck!
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