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female
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36-40,
*lgaa
writes:we got married 7 months ago.we meet every 3 months,its long distance marriage,cos im waiting for spouse visa.any how,before i meet him i was in relationship and he did read the emails i had with my ex which i sent and received before i met with my husband,he knew i sent him sex mails and we had online sex...etc i did same with my husband when he was my fiance,but after we got married i got depressed cos we are apart,so i stoped sendin him sex mail...etche been asking for them last months and i just cant do it due to my depression,but he dont understand,and he forcing me now to do it or he would leave me.we talk every day,but he ask me for online sex,and want me to play sex and record it on video and send it to him,i said i cant now.i asked him to wait he said he did wait for too long if he cant get this then he dont want me.he made choice if there is no online sex then there is no us.help pls what to do,is he being fair????this is last conversation we had:John says:well im not coming back with youOlga says:whyJohn says:i want wife who will do what i ask when i ask no matter what it isOlga says:so cos i said n sex party?John says:not thatOlga says:so?John says:will u make me video sex if i askOlga says:yesJohn says:u will play in it ?Olga says:yesJohn says:and if i say tonight we will have party sex will uOlga says:noJohn says:i may want thatOlga says:i would do it if it wasnt sinJohn says:okJohn says:if i tell u to kiss some guy will you?Olga says:noJohn says:whyOlga says:dont want toJohn says:so u will not do all i sayOlga says:do u think if u tell me go kiss a guy i will say ok???John says:i expect u to say okJohn says:i expect my wife to do as i ask
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): Yes, really, he seems to be obsessed about sex and not concerned or caring about you! Rethink your relationship with him. These are just signs of how he will continue to act in the future. I dont know for how long you have known him, but by the sound of it, this is a behaviour you haven't seen in him before.
Take this seriously as it is your future you are talking about here. If he will leave you unless he gets sex in the way he demands it is obvious you matter little to him.
I do wish you the best of luck. Be strong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): You need to find a new man. Hes a control freak and has no respect for you. Asking you to kiss another man??? Dump him. There are much better men that him in this world.
Xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): He's a control freak and if you move in with with this guy his control will only get much worse. Think twice.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 I would think twice about this marriage, he doesn't seem to think that male and female are equal human beings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): OMG! You are his wife, not his sex slave! Never do anything you are uncomfortable doing!
He is being disrespectful and treating you like a possession!
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