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writes:I met a guy soon after my divorce and we just hit it off. Neither of us ever expected much when we first me but we have really connected. In fact I can say that we have really fallen for each other. We are in our mid thirties and both came out of failed marraiges. He was married 14 years and I was married 13. Both marriages failed becuase of infadelity of the other spouse. So we both have been very deeply hurt. I am really confused at this point and need some guidance. I am now pregnant and have only been seriously dating him for three months now. Can it really be love? Can it really work out? He wants to get married but I am not so sure it's the right thing to do. He has two children, daughter 10 and a son 7. I have three children, Son 12, Son 9 and Daughter 7. I know the dynamics of a second marriage can cause them to fail very quickly. I don't want another failed marraige. What do I do?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): This doesn't have to be an immediate decision- why not take the time to get to know each other in the relationship and see how your kids get a long and if all goes well, get married. Take it off the table for now and just focus on your relationship and the new baby.
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