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writes:This is my strange story that i really need help with.... Okay, my boyfriend and i where out on saturday, we went to one of the local car and bike show, he parked rather far from the pits, he asked me to go and get a few things out the car after breakfast which i did although his other cellphone was laying in the car by the driver seat. Yes okay, i ran through the text messages, which i knew i was supposed to do. There were a few messages from a girl, which i have no idea who she is, sweet lovely dovey good morning messages and good night and so on, have a lovely day sweetness cant wait to chat to chat to you again. It really cut deep. On my way back to the pit, i was crying like i have never cried before, i sobbed like a baby. I did not want to talk to him i did not even what to be any where near him. He kept asking me what was wrong, the more i tried to get away the move he kept pulling me back and holding, i finally turned and yelled at him, 'who the f**k is ...' he was shocked and he said its not what i think it is, and that he will tell me the story because it really is not what i am applying. He said that it was a girl that thought she knew him that his profile on skype was the same as another guy by the same name, that she thought he was this other guy and that it was only a confusion. That he would never ever do something like that to me. Its difficult to believe him because this kind of thing has happened to me already twice. He has never told me a lie before ever. It just really hurts so very much, i just cant stop crying and just cant stop thinking about it. Ever since then, his been sending a text messages to me, randomly in the day, that he misses me and little Xxx's and things like good morning my angel, are we going out tonight, he has just been acting weird.... Why am i so hurt about this, and why is he acting this strange way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): wow, you go girl. you have spunk
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere is an up date, i spoke to this girl, and she said it was actually an mistake, she did invite the wrong person, they have only been talking for the last 2 weeks. He says he did not talk much to her cause he never really has time.. I have decided to leave it at that, we had a fight about it, he says i'm worried about nothing and being so jealous is not going to work, he would have freak if it was me talking to some random guy.the point it i really dont give two hoots who he talks to, i just dont like the idea of some skanky little girl sending him messages like that, i explained it to him in such a way that he knows now how hurt i am about it. He also said that he is rather sick and tired of people trying to run his life.... Which hurt too.... So i think for the time being I'll turn my phone off and just not contact him for a while and see what happens.... I have better things to do then lick someone's ass to be with me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): sounds a bit far fetched to me. most of the time i say two cellphones mean trouble esp when the better half doesn't know of it.
surely he would have told you about these mystery texts or phantom texts from the other girl. i have NEVER heard of someone mistakenly continuously sending text messages to the "wrong" person, have you. if i know that i have mistaken someone i make certain when i send a message that it is to the "correct" person. the texting thing has been breaking up relationships and the cheaters lie more when they get caught. i am sure you have heard some of the lame stories. your one about the CONTINUOUS mistaken identity is the first
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