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*rendan
writes:Should I write a letter for our 4th month anniversary? I personally have been feeling a lot of strain, but apparently thats just me and my over reading of everything.. which I admit, I can get very, very insecure at times.. Besides, Ive realised for a relationship to work is trust, and giving each other the benefit of the doubt. I want to know if this letter should consist of my thoughts about this recent strain or would this only make things seem more serious and suffocating? Weve already exchanged letters, but all of it was positive and heartwarming. Ive already talked to her about this issue couple times, and I dont know if i should write it because i could be raising uncomfort in her. I want it to be a moment of reflection as well as in-the-moment sort of thing. Perhaps instead of a letter addressing this, it should only consist of why I love spending time with her and although theres less time for that I cant wait for holidays :) then end it with something cheesy like absecence makes the heart grow fonder :PAnd as a side thing, we met and spent alot of the night watching the stars, I plan to take her to a park (nothing spectacular, its a local park but big with a little lake) and have a night picnic thing with candles ;) hows this sound? or should i go to the mountains for this?thankz guiys
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reader, brendan +, writes (26 May 2009):
brendan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much! its good to hear others appreciate that, because at times i question whether i should realy bother any more. but responses from strangers like that make it all worthwhile. its actually quite scary, that from the very little information ive provided, youve managed to deduce my way towards women.. thanks!
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