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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): as with anyone "caught" with their pants down (i hope you all see the irony here) he would have got his alibi. any good cheater would have done so already.
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 Ask this 'friend' of his, but don't tell your hubbby your asking his friend, just ask which friend, then go ahead and ask him.
If he's smart he'll have warned his friend, so if that fails you need to either get rid of him or believe him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Please don't buy his story!
He's lying! I know you want to believe it but, come on!!!
He cried because he got busted!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 I'm sorry no amount of crying would make me believe he was holding condoms for a "friend" I'm more inclined to believe the crying was because he got caught...
Who the heck carry condoms for other people? Why? Maybe if he was 16 I "might" believe it..
Something smells fishy here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): God I hope you didnt buy that! no man holds condoms for any other guy!!!! he is fooling around and he got caught! Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): You need to talk to him properly because i don't think that he was telling the truth. To cry, shows signs of guilt.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 May 2009):
 He is lying! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): I think he is telling the truth or he would have made sure to get rid of them
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Maybe he's telling the truth, maybe a friend did ask your husband to pick some up as he forgot to himself, but never intended to keep hold of some. I'm only saying this because i'm a 25yo male (not all men are cheats) who has only had two serious relationships and i didn't cheat on any of them, wouldn't've dreamed of it. Good luck
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reader, searbear +, writes (26 May 2009):
 ask this friend of his! don't believe him until you have enough facts...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): if i was telling you this of my hb would you believe the story. same here. no he is not telling the truth. how to find out? investigate it.
him crying- i cry when i am guilty, don't you. i think you caught him red handed. what do you say? in life nothing is as innocent as the cheaters say it is. i am sure you read it all here and must have learnt something by now.
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (26 May 2009):
 SIX condoms? What kind of friends needs 6 condoms and can't go to a chemist or a mens bathroom, or one of the many other places in this world that condoms are readily available.
Crying doesn't equal honesty. In my experiences people are more likely to crying because they got caught, than because they are feeling bad about whatever they did.
I wouldn't believe it, but it's your call.
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