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writes:I have fallen head over heals for a straight man who is 26 years old and with eyes that can melt butter. We were to go out for lunch sometime, swimming on a day and date he picked but he backed out. I mean this man is gorgeous and I really want him, but he got ticked off with me because of all the emails I would send wanting to know when we were getting together. I saw him for a brief minute today but it was weird. We have never sat down privately to talk, I only see him where he works and there's no privacy there. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Ugh... i have to start paying attention to age and gender brackets. sorry man.. just completely ignore what i said.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 He's straight - that means that however much you fancy him, he won't fancy you. It is the same if, for example, a straight woman falls for a gay guy. Basically, it is tough, and that's it.
You need to find someone else who is gay. I think you should stop pressurising this guy you like, as you risk losing him all together - he won't even be your friend soon, as he will just cut you out. You have to decide: do you want him in your life, as a friend, or not in your life at all? That's the choice. There isn't any other option.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Sorry hun,the odds of you turning a straight man opposite are 0. (i'm straight by the way)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Yeah.. don't really see a question here. It is pretty inattractive when people get clingy/desperate.needy.. whatever. So if you want him, then you're going to have to back off abit.
I say don't cantact him for a while and wait for him. and next time you get together or will see him.. wear the little dress that will make him miss you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Ummmm, he's straight. That makes him unavailable to you.
Try not stalking and pressuring him and find a guy who is available....you are freaking this one out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): So he's straight and doesn't like when you obsess about him. I guess you just needed to vent? Sucks when you want someone you can't have but makes for some good fantasies! If he wanted to see you privately, he would but he doesn't. What would you say to him anyway? "When are we getting together?". I mean, he's ignoring the emails about that so why make him more freaked out.
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