I like this girl, but don't know whether I should continue being friends, what do you think?

A female age 36-40, *aliGurl88 writes:

So this is my story: I love my friend, and I promised I will always be here for her. (Am I gay? no, bi? Maybe) and I am, I try my best. Anyways, we are in 2 different states, so there isn't much I can do but talk on the phone. She's always going out and has her own life, hooking up and whatever. I go out and I broke up with my ex for her. But its been a while so im going back out with him. But in the end I still want her, I want her to do her own thing and have fun, be happy and live life. I can move on though, I don't know why. All I think about is at the end, after she's done having fun and going out, I want her to come with me. I want to take care of her. Should I move on? Move on with my life? I mean, she is everything I don't like in a person, but we are great friends, we flirt and have fun. What should I do? Any advice will help.

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