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writes:Why men in love want to have sex with their woman? My boyfriend keeps telling that he really wants to make love to me. And that he misses me when we are not together...Its not that he pressures me to have sex with me but he keeps mentioning about his desire to have sex with me. We are together since 2 years now.. Reply to this Question
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (28 May 2009):
I meant to say late "teens". Sorry to have left that off.
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (28 May 2009):
I agree with "eyeswideopen".
For future reference though, men do like having sex with their girl to bring them closer. This at least is his perception and a part of a need men have to feeling close to his girl. Women usually require a different form, but men are not always capable of being in that moment.
For your young age, I worry more about the intentions of the boy, and what could end up happening, such as you get pregnant, that he is tricking you to have sex and his only interest is scroing, which is common at this age. This disapears when he reaches his late to early twenties.
Be careful, and be safe: condom and/or the pill. But best to wait a few years before you thrust yourself into this arena of relationships; they can be very confusing and trying.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 May 2009):
 Sorry Honey but you are not a "woman" yet. Tell your boyfriend that you will be interested in his propositions once you do achieve that status. Until then he should treat you like the sweet, young thing that you are.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 Hormones! we are all cavemen, and all we want to do as teenage boys is reproduce with as many people as possible to spread his genetic line.
Unfortunately he won't understand why he gets these urges it just happens, it's like why do you need to wear make up? You probably think it's because it make you feel good, but deep down hormonally it's all to do with attracting a mate.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (26 May 2009):
 sometimes it helps a man and woman connect further more with eachother get to know eachothers bodies and feel alot closer together and more as one person.
you said he's not pressuring you but he keeps mentioning it to you about his "desire" in some ways this IS pressuring you to do he's sort of trying to guilt you into it.
if you're not ready then tell him you don't want to do that as you're not ready for this kind of act.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Well, there are physical factors at work, like hormones. They usually infuence a person to want to have sex!
If someone really loves somebody else though, then it can also be a case of wanting to get even closer to that person, as close as possible. It's also a way that people like to express their love for another person.
You said that he is not pressuring you, but that he keeps mentioning it and bringing it up. If you are not ready, or just simply don't want to sleep with him (and I am in favour for that because you are still young), then just stand your ground with him. x
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