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writes:I have a friend. She comes around at times and when she leaves, I feel sad longing for her. When she's next to me, I have this cute love like feelings. The thing is I don't want to fall for her. She has been in relationships in and out and I wouldn't feel comfortable with that. She's not bad person at all.She's a cute girl. I just don't understand these feelings when I want just to be her friend and if we were to be in a relationship we both might get hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmaybe it is the hormones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): It could just be hormones, in which case you will have to try and be strong!
Or maybe you would actually like to be more than just friends with her...but your concerns are holding you back, hence the sad longing. Do you think she likes you in that way too? If so, then maybe you could give things a chance? Okay, you might end up getting hurt, but that could happen with anyone.
If you really do just want to be friends with her though, then perhaps it might be easier if you make sure you meet in places where there a lots of other people around, or do activities where you will be able to focus on other things instead of just each other.
Or could you just be a bit lonely? Maybe if you spent more time with other friends, and a bit less with this girl, it might help you get a little bit more distance.
I hope this helps somehow. x
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