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30-35,
*gaurav1914
writes:I am 20 years old.I am in love with my GF who is 34 years old.She is divorced and not having any child.Her husband was impotant hence she didnt have sex before.She loves me lot and she is very much caring for me too.I am from middle class brahmin family and she is also brahmin of the same kind.I have told this thing at my home and got very bad reaction as expected.plz tell me whether i should go for this relationship or not....?
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reader, mitta  +, writes (26 May 2009):
Ok firstly it could be 2 things your family have a problem with, her age and that shes been married before.
Your family have high expectations for you and perhaps in their eyes this woman doesnt meet their ideal image of a wife for you. They may be worried that she might not give you enough children or something really simple like that. Or that you will be looked down upon in your community.
I know you love this woman alot, but you have to talk to your family about how strongly they feel about this. If they are really really unapproving you will have to decide whether to go against them or not. Going against their wishes will be hard and they might cut you out. You have to decide if its worth it. At the same time being without the person you love is really hard too... but your family are there forever. try to explain to them that she is really a good woman, with you best interest at heart.
You need to make a careful well thought out decision.
Good luck
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 May 2009):
 There is nothing wrong with this relationship! X
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