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writes:i found out my girl of 11 months had went out with her old boyfriend from a 1.5 years ago.they went to dinner and she doesnt drink but she had a glass of dinner wine and was intoxicated,so she ask to be brought over to her girl friends.well she didnt make it she ended up in a hotel with this guy.she said she just kissed him and they went to sleep.she said she needed to know if she still cared for him.what is this telling me..that iam swiss cheese.she said i dont love him anymore..but i needed to find out if i did..my question is did she have to go to bed with him and kiss him to find this out?and part 2 to the question: should i trust her doing this again in the future..lost and confused.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni enjoyed all the answers...hope their all wrong but hey,,
iam only thinking this way because i want to settle down with this women..but thank you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): They had this evening planned, hotel and everything, and I'm thinking she ordered the wine to loosen her up, not like she said- like they just had dinner and because of the wine, they end up in a hotel, don't think so.
Just kissed him? Doesn't make sense. She did the whole nine yards, like she said, she needed to see if she still cared for him- a simple kiss after a dinner and a booked hotel room? Wake up.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 Eheh, one glass of wine does not make you drunk. There are things called cabs and mobile phones and pay phones. There are also things like two different rooms in a hotel. there is no reason the two would have ended up in the same bed for any other reason then that she wanted to be there and not to catch up on her beauty sleep.
If you believe she didn't have sex with him, then I got a bridge to sell you.
It also tells you how she feels about you. Why would she need to find out if she still loves him if she is supposed to be in love with you?
I am willing to bet that you are the boring stable boyfriend, the one who don't rev her engine but the one she thinks makes the most sense for the future now she is getting on a bit.
He is the one that turns her on, for who she got the hots, but he is a bit unreliable, a good fuck but a lousy provider.
If you regonize this description, then you can trust her, right up to the moment her panties next catch fire.
Proceed with caution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): who goes to a hotel with an ex for just a kiss and to fall asleep. in life you go to a hotel to have sex and do more kissing, then fall asleep. what is more realistic to you.
you are an adult and you know how adult relationships work. you know you have your doubts.
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