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writes:I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until neither could take it anymore and we needed to meet. We need to see and understand where this chemistry was and if we met in person....would it end? Well, my boyfriend at the time and another couple and he went out to dinner. It was rather akward because as soon as I saw him all of my negativity of what we couldn't be went out the window. We continued our relationship/friendship flirting the entire time he was here....I was on my breaking point with my current relationship and was fixing to leave where he had left his. Well, my ex found our texts and started to demand more and ect. Well, I got on a plane and flew to my parents, leaving him far behind. Well the guy I had fallen for drove the eight hours and slept four days in a parking lot, waiting to greet me at the airport. We drove to my parents house, lived here was planning on being married Tuesday when he got a phone call from his family freaking out about the marriage being so sudden, ect ect he needed to come home and fix everything he left....I forgot to mention He's from Canada and was here before they required he have a passport to transfer back over. We had everything planned and figured out...From the marriage to the money problems, to the forms that needed to be signed and sent...everything....The night he left...he spent the entire night telling me he didnt want to be with me anymore, he loves me....but he messed everything up for me how we couldn't do long distance, even if it took a year...anything. I finally convinced him to give us a shot...but I don't know what to do.We have such amazing chemistry, he is my soulmate and I know it and he does too....we don't want this to be the end....Why is he running away from this, Do you think we were stupid for t rying this, wanting this? In the end, are we going to be okay or am I just going to get hurt again? Should I just of stayed in my past relationship and never ventured this far forward?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 i don't think you were at all stupid for doing this i mean he clearly loves you spending 4 days sleep in a car park waiting to greet you not just any guy would do that.
you shouldn't have stayed in the past relationship as you clearly wanted this guy alot more than you expected in person which is good because at least you knew where you were i mean alot of people change in person from internet things but obviously the chemistry was still there for you guys.
maybe he's telling you this stuff because of what his parents had said that he'd left a mess behind that he had to fix and maybe he felt that you had also left a mess behind that you needed to fix but didn't say anything just incase it hurt his feelings maybe he feels he's ruined things for you as well as people at home... maybe he feels you may have regretted things.
you took a risk and took a risk for the better you were obviously unhappy in the past relationship ever since you met this guy on world of war craft and you've found something and someone really meaningful.
you guys can do this i reckon you'll get through it of course you will.
if you guys love eachother as much as i think you do then you'll definately overcome this no doubt about it at all.
Best of luck to you!
Hope this helps :)
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reader, romance_boy18  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 "you cant force a flower to bloom to beauty overnight". marriage is a serious bond that must be built on longtime love and passion for 1 another, but this is a burst of a huge crush hun. that doesnt get you far in life, trust me ive had those crushes and it crushed me to bits afterwards in a relationship. we all have "the one" we meet in life, but we all must get to know them face to face.
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