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writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. i am 20 and he is turning 23 next month.he suffers from depression and anxity. today he out of the blue got really mad and broke his computer. he smashed it and ran out of my house. later texts me saying this time it was the computer next time it will be me. later again he texts me that he left his house keys at my place . he told me to stay away from him and leave them in my mail box. he will pick them up from there. i then left the keys in the mailbox.ofcourse i am very upset and do not want to deal with a psyco man like him even though i love him. i dont not want to see him or have any communication with him. but currently i am confused about one thinghe had left this wallet and phone charger and smashed computer at my place. i know these are important things. should i give them back to him when he asks? i dont even want to acknowledge his presence at the moment. but then again there is this crazy love that i have that i dont wana leave him moneyless and with a dead phone. is it ok to not give his wallet and phone charger back for a while?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Run for hills, today it was his computer, tomorrow it might be you. drop him like a hot piece of charcoal. there's many nice guys out there for you. You arent married to this psycho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much your answer was very helpful. after he left my house he texted me saying next would be me. the reason it all started was when he was having a serious conversation with me. he was bitching about his step mother and how he has to go for the entire summer to visit her. i just said how it sucks that my best friend and my boyfriend are going to be away. he responded back by saying how i should understand and how i have this bad habit of saying such things at the wrong time ---( or something along those lines he said) i responded by saying that i dont think wat i said was wrong and turned away.
he has been responding this way only recently. he even goes to a therapist.
i will stay away from him.
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