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I'm never able to say what I feel

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Question - (26 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom, *.BrokenxHearts.x writes:

Hiya,

Okay a lot of my relationships or soon to become relationships end up failing because I never let them know just how I feel about them.

I've never been one to show my feelings as I see it as making myself vulnerable to getting hurt. I do not believe in happily ever after and I don't believe marriages last i'm sorry to say.

I'd love to believe in all of this but deep down I have this feelings and its just saying 'whats the point your only going to get your heart broken'.

I just split up with my boyfriend and my biggest regret is not telling him every single day how much he meant to me.

The thing is I never say how I feel although I want to. I've lost alot of amazing people due to this but no matter what i'm still unable to do it.

When will I learn?!

x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

Have you ever had your heart broken in the past? And if so (like me) it might be a good idea to speak to a professional about it coz insecurities will keep popin up in your mind and you won't be able to commit.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

If you keep having a negative attitude on marriage and relationships then they arn't going to be happy for you. You need to learn to enjoy life and don't be scared to tell people how you feel. Be brave, put a smile on your face and go for it!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

You need to learn to express your feelings. It's not good to keep them bottled up inside. If you don't tell people how you feel then you're going to end up losing them. Youre oign to go through heart break at some point, but thats life. Rejection makes you stronger. You will get your happiness

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