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writes:me and my girlfriend have been going out for just under 8 months. everything was perfect up until last friday. before we started going out i thought she hated me because we had gone out before and broken up. i said some things i shudnt have and i really didnt mean them but at the time i thought she hated me. she found out i had sais them and now she says she doesnt feel the same about me. she said she's sure she still loves me and she doesnt want to brake up. i love her so much and i really dont want to lose her but i dont know wat to do. any ideas?? Reply to this Question
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reader, griffingirl  +, writes (26 May 2009):
From a girl's perspective, if she really loves you she'd rather get over what you said than leave you. You need to start saying only positive things about her to other people. If you have a problem- tell her not others- she'll appreciate it. Explain exactly what happened to her and swear never to do it again.
A good place to start would be: jewelry, roses, fancy dinner, romantic date, etc (but you can not buy her love, this is just to show her you're sorry....it won't work everytime.)....Something to let her know you're crazy about her and you love her more than anything.
Send her a romantic text during the day......say something really sweet but not cheesy.
Take her on a date and say "it's your night, we'll do whatever yoou want to" OR put alot of thought into a date.
And take a deep breath and RELAX.
If you're a Christian like I am trust that God has it all under control and if she does break up with you someone better will come along.
Best of luck......Keep us posted on what happens.
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