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writes: Strangely enough i found my boyfriends profile on a dating site a month ago.(me and my friend were messing around and came across him) Im pretty sure hes had that for a while probably before he even met me. i went to look back to see if he deleted it or something like that, seems he still has it. it said he was last online a week ago.. which means he still signs on and checks it. first off, we've been dating for two months already and he tells me he loves me, things that wouldnt make me feel suspicious about. im just a bit confused that he still checks it. is there a reason why he still checks it, am i just being a goof about it?Thanks much! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Gracie2006 +, writes (12 May 2009):
I just posted a similar question. Here is part of the answer that I got. Maybe he is insecure in your relationship and wants to keep his options open in case you dump him? I suspect that is the case with my guy, why he kisses me and goes straight home and checks in at the online dating site. Since I posted, I now realize I also am probably a bit insecure. Why else would I be checking up on him behind his back?
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