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writes:I am 32 and i am interested in this guy hes 44. I feel 100% safe with him (he knows people in my family-who happens to be in police force-hes not going to hurt me). We were both hurt in last relationship. Thing is mine was my first relationship. I have one child he has children as well. He seems quiet and shy just as I am.We have been on a few dates. I havent kissed him yet. I dont know how to initiate it. I would love to kiss him and he hasnt tried anything. Were going to the drive in next time. I am ready to have sex with him if he wants to. Ive known of him for 3 or 4 yrs (had big crush etc and never thought too much of myself to even have a shot). Someone told him I liked him and gave him my number. He called etc etc.I need to know what are some moves that girls make, guys touch the girls leg, or put arm around girl etc. What do women do. I know seems dumb but im not really much experienced and would only be my 2nd partner.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 Well..i find it comes naturally..there will be a momment when you both have to kiss, the whole sitting close together, his arm around you, someone quiet so not many people around so you both don't get shy......the whole build up to first kiss is AMAZING...so don't think to much into it, when the time is right, lean in close and ENJOY!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Hi, anon.,...(smiling) I am a guy and I am a little older than your "special guy", but I would say that from what you have said, he is a little on the shy side. That is not a bad thing. It just means that he does not want to "scare you off". But, if you are really interested, you can do some things that will let him know you would like a little more "affection",..(smile). If you are in a movie, you can take his hand and squeeze it at certain times, like when the stars are getting it on together...(lol) or, you can just stroke his arm or hand when you are watching the movie. Those little things can say a lot. He would then be comfortable to ask you for a goodnight kiss. When you kiss him, you can make it a v-e-r-y good kiss. One that will let him know that, "Hey, Bubba, you rock my boat". He is all yours, then, hon. just tie him up and take him home...(lol!)
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