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*asmin_123
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we live together.About a year ago we decided to have a break from each other, in this time he slept with someone else.We decided over our time apart that we missed each other too much and couldnt be without each other and decided to get back together. The last year has been very hard for my boyfriend he has lost a lot of his friends and has lost his job and has had lots of major problems with his family. Then eventually about a month ago he got a new job and things were starting to look up for us, then he got a phonecall from the girl he had slept with saying she had a three week old baby and that its his.I felt devastated, but he keeps saying its not his, but she wont let him have a paternity test.She has called him 24-7 asking for money, she has called me trying to split us up by telling lies, she has also rang up his new job telling them he has hit her and he is now thinking he will get the sack, she has also destroyed the relationship with his family to the point they wont even speak to him anymore all because of horrible lies she has been telling.I just don't know what to do?I know if the babys his i cannot stay with him, but if he has no job, no friends and no family and no where to live what can i do? i care about him to much to leave him at this horribe time,I cannot talk to friends of family about this because i am too embarrased.I just don't know what to do or think?She is also telling me he knew about it the whole time? in which case he lied to me?I just don't know what to do? i love him and he is having a really hard time too. i dont even know what my question is? i just needed to get this all out and if anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated. Thaks for reading this
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reader, Dalmatian  +, writes (11 May 2009):
Now is the time to break up with the boyfriend.The baby needs a father and you need to move on with yourlife.
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