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My dad says I'm disrespecting him if I date this guy.

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Question - (11 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this guy. Hes black and my dad doesn't want me dating a black guy at all. He says its bad to society and everyone will hate me for it. Is that true ?? Me and the guy have just started really getting to know each other and we aren't planning on really dating for a while but my dad is freakin out saying that my life will be ruined if i do and that i would be disrespecting him. I don't really see the problem with dating a black guy. My dad is pretty much putting me on lock down now. he watches me every second and has to know every detail now. He wont leave me alone and has to pick me up and drive me everywhere. Ugh its killing me. i don't know what to do. i realy like this guy and i want to still see him and getting to know him better but my dad is having a fit.

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A female reader, gurunikki United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

huni i think your father is seriously racist!!

in my opinion only racist people will have a problem with you dating this guy. if you really like him you should go for it, you need to live your own life not the life your father is trying to force you to live. dont listen to his racist hatred any longer its a dispicable attitude to have.

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