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30-35,
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writes:my ex thinks he doing the right thing by breaking up with me..should i wait for him or just move on because when i look at him at school he doesnt seem to care about me anymore..he still come to visit me and when i talk about how we can start all over again he gets mad and say i dont wana talk about this i just wana come and spend time with you and each time i cry in front of him he gets mad and say some really mean stuff to me like shut up stop crying like a baby its not going to work for me and then he wants to leave i just love him so much that even when he yells or say some mean stuff to me i just stand there and say nothing ... weve been through so much together and i always sneek him in to sleep over at my house and i always chose him over my family ..and i lost it to him and i cant imagining myself giving it to other guys.. he said for me to wait like a month for him and see what happens but he told his friend that he wasnt even going to ask me out again he just said that to make me happy that really hurt me..and i also found out that hes been talking to girls..how am i suppose to wait for him when all he do is talk to other girls? should i just ignore him and not keep contact with him? is he going to regret breaking up with me? should i blame myself for him breaking up with him or is it just his choice? is it karma going to hit on him and make him think back and say to himself that i really did loved him? i still love him till this very day and i need him back ... what should i do to get the answer if he still loves me? if anyone reads this PLEASE PLEASE help me im stuck with no one to turn to.. my friendds cant even understand me
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Honey, the writing is on the wall. He's done and you need to be to. I know its not what you want to hear, but he's already gone. It's very hard but you need to make yourself strong and move on. Stop allowig him to come over.. You're not his doormat, and if he was a true friend he would understand your pain. If he's already talking to other girls he's already looking for someone new and in the mean time you're just too available. As to whether he'll regret it, only time will tell, but for now you need to rely on your true friends, stop allowing him to use you when he wants to, and pick up the pieces of your broken heart and MOVE ON!!
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