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writes:My girlfriend and I are very happy together, but girls keep coming up to me and touching me and doing other stuff when they know I have a girlfiend. Like today this girl from a different school came up to me and kissed me on the lips!!!! and my gf was standing right there. She didnt get mad at me but she was about to kill the other girl. She trusts me and knows I'd never kiss another girl besides her. How can I make these girls that I dont even know leave me alone? I've told them to stop but they do it even more then. I dont like the hurt that they're causing my gf. any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Maybe just turn your head when they come near. I mean its not that hard to not let someone kiss you. You are in control of your body and your mouth, so just make it clear that you dont want them to kiss you..
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (12 May 2009):
 Like Mom says, Use Your Words. No one can take advantage of you unless you allow it. If you can't stop them with a loud "NO" or "GET AWAY FROM ME" and they kiss you, then saying "GROSS" after having a kiss forced on you isn't being rude.
I'd also tell your Mom about this. If I were your parent, I would take this to the principal and ask that this kind of behavior was addressed, and if certain girls were repeat offenders, that they be spoken with. It is sexual harassment!
You are at the age when meningitis is easily spread through kissing, as well as shared food and drinks. Being kissed on the lips when you want to only kiss your own girlfriend is ALSO a health concern for both you AND your girlfriend. And you are a great guy to consider how it hurts her feelings. Good for you. Hope something in here was of help. XXX
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