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anonymous
writes:I found a packet of condoms hidden in the garage with one condom missing out of the packet. My husband tells me he has no idea how it got there - I do not believe him - we have two children - I am highly pregnant with the third one - what should I do. Everytime I close my eyes I see him using maing love to anothr woman!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Whn I expected my first baby we were in the process of moving countries and he went ahead - I wanted to stay behin because I still wanted to work a bit. I read an e-mail he sent to a friend talking about another woman he met and how confused he is about getting maried etc. I now have this ladies tel no - should I call her 5 years later and ask her if she slept with my husband?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy kids are 5 and 3. Does it make a difference?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): i think you know already know he is lying. (and he hid it away from you in the garage, right?) was he also keeping it there to perhaps use again.
i also think you need to do some investigating. you may be pregnant but you are also alive, and you can investigate still while pregnant. plse check who he comes into contact with, perhaps a neghbour, some family member. if hes at work then perhaps the condoms would have been left at the workplace. so if he is indulging it is someone you both are in contact with.
be subtle but CLEVER with your investigation. and confront him. he may ly to you again and again, but he will slip up. you want to have the truth before you go to hospital to give birth. so please start nosing aroung now. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): How old are your kids?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): have you talked to him about what your thoughts are?
maybe you should try to find out a little more before you jump to conclusions. did you guys use condoms sometime before?
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