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writes:Okay, i was dating a guy for eight months, Steven. And I was absolutely in love with him. Well be broke up in january, he broke up with me, saying he didn't love me anymore. And in the past month or so, he's said he missed me, he talked with me and sayed he wasnt over me. We spent all day and night together a week or so ago and it was wonderful, just like how we used to be, we had alot of fun. Well I asked if anything would happen bettween us, and he said (his exact words)"I don't know, I'm not in any shape to be in a relationship right now, maybe in the future we could try", and i couldn't handle being messed with anymore so i told him i didnt think we should hangout anymore. During all this i knew he had a friend in like washinton or somthing, we live in ny, and this "friend" is now on his myspace page, and its like there a long distance couple but not really? WTF. He was leading me on, hurting me and talking to her at the same damn time. I keep thinking he will come back, and i really hope he does. But i also know these thoughts are wrong, and that i should be over it by now? What is wrong with me?
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reader, hutchi  +, writes (11 May 2009):
hey i have had the same experience but we broke up 18months ago. he met someone else but she lives quite away i never ask him about her it hurts to much and he is always out with out her and so i thought they had broken up so stayed at his a few times, only to find he was still with her but she was working away.....how used did i feel, i still love him but im movin on i have met someone new but it also carries its problems but im working it out time will help ya, trust me as move as im sure he cares he ended it for his reasons, but ur there when he calls he sees u as available be strong and walk away if he really loves u he will fight for u. hope it all works out
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