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How to ask aguy if he wants to see each other after sleeping together?

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Question - (11 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

basically , a guy ive been un-ofically seeing, which i get on amazing with though when he actaully meets me.Yet we talk online and text alot.:(i have made most the effort to see him,but he came so he must have liked me to some point) ..Weve been on about 5 dates and i ended up sleeping with him after an amazing night at the cinema and after a drink on saturday at his house.

It was a really lovley night, i cant stop thinking about him. he was cuddling me and everything. But now im just like ?.

Hes had alot of sexual partners and it just obvisley makes me feel like another one to the collection.

I just basically need to know if he wants to start seeing each other (meaning we're not allowed to have sex with other people). and it would just be amazing to see how it goes with him. Ive got feelings for him even more now :(

But i dont know how to ask him, any ideas, how i should say it to him?.

im hoping he didnt just use me, weve known each other for quite a while :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009):

You shld ask him how much that night meant to him and also try and find his previous sex partners and see what happened to them. However, he might accuse you of snooping if you do this.

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