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Ex having midlife crisis and now wants to be friends

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Question - (11 May 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *orizon_Blue writes:

i have been with my fella for over a year..

his best friend has just been sentanced to 9 months in prison and has received a letter from him explaining he wants to start a new when he gets out..

this has made my fella want to think and has caused him to think about what he wants in life. By doing this he has pushed me away..

he recently has been acting so weird it caused me to snap.. he claims even now he loves me so much and just wanted some space.. it drove me mad so we ended up splitting up.

Yesterday he came over to see if we could work things out. he explained to me how much he will always loved me and he just needs to be alone to figure out what he wants to do in his next step in life.. i agreed.. just to make him happy.. he said he wants to stay the best of friends and still meet up all the time..

but i feel he is just using me? i love him so much.. we were lay there in bed and he said will u miss me? asking me these questions which where tearing me up inside..

he said he will give me a text//call middle of this week to catch up..

but honest im heart broken.. hes my life. i love him so much.. i told him 100% how i feel and how i want to help him. but nothing has made him change his mind.

Im so alone, i dont want to let go. I dont want to get over him..

He said u never know what the future hold for us we could get back together.. and when me reversing the question he said he is going to miss me. and when making love he whispered u will always be in my heart..

Its killing me him not even texting me for one day.

I need to know what to do.. too be there.. or to move on..

help! x

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