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writes:Hi i am 16 and straight but i have problem with a bi friend. He always go after straight guys that have no interst in him but hes so desperate that he'll that he do anything for them. Basically he lets himself be used and got hurt when me and my 2 other friends told him that he was being used. He left a message to you guys because he is hurt that another straight guy that he wants is not into him. I told him to get help from you guys since your answers are really good. But he instead ask you guys to help win a straight guy with food, yes that boy that buys food for the metro is my friend. I told him the guy is a straight pretty boy i can tell cause my gaydar is never wrong, i know weird a hetro that has it and his bi friend doesnt. What should i tell him cause he ll get hurt again and i hate it when he cries. What should he do to get over his wants over this guy? I really need help cause he needs to understand that their is someone who will love him for who he is. Please help, not for me but for my friend! Reply to this Question
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 he wants what he cannot have...
as a gay myself a huge proportion of gays do not behave as though they are men, and i only find myself attracted to men. this poses a problem. you friend needs to develop better intuition, or trust yours more frquently.
he needs to stop engineering situations which will leave him feeling bad. the choice is his to make freely
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): hey its me the straight friend. well he decide 2 admits his feelings towards that guy but the guy got grossed out and does not want 2 talk 2 him, so yeah hes now broken hearted. Oh thanks for the advice i ll be sure 2 use it
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