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writes:I was wondering , if I can ever figure this out somehow.Do you know , what reason, a man stop having sexual deisre?Well, my husband used to be very sexual with me.But not anymore. He stoped it ,years ago..I just think he is not in love with me anymore, and I'm so afraid that it will stay like that.SO I really would like to see, as much opinion, as possible. Even if it's short.What do you think goes on with a man ,who does not turn on from his wife's naked body, even for stimulation?Also he does have normal erections when he wakes up?What is the most likely going on here? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): plse try watching porn together and see whether he gets an erection (which i am sure he will get since there is evidence in the mornings)and whether he is up for it with you. does he then want to have sex WITH YOU.
if not, then perhaps 2 things are happening - 1. ERECTILE Dydfunction 2. an affair???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): To be quite honest it's just old and routine.I've been married 20 years and after all that time it's just not the same anymore. I love my wife very much but when it comes to sex I just don't have the urge anymore. Maybe he feels the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): It could be a medical issue. A morning erection, does not mean he can get one at other times!
I would be asking some questions! Why are we so afraid to communicate? It drives me crazy!
Yes there could be a number of scenarios, but only He knows whats really going on (and maybe he doesn't even know for sure)
Do yourself a favor and try to talk to your man! Let him know what you are thinking and feeling. Suggest a visit to the doctor. But Please start talking!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): there are many reasons darling,
the most reason men claim is that they are used to their wives and there is nothing new or exciting about having sex with them,and this problem is easy and curable,
but my personel case is different and i dont see my wife sexy atall,
because when ever we have sex she acts like she has no feelings or A-sexual,
infact i have found out that she doesnt realy want sex
all what she wants is the attention involved and to make me feel happy !!,
but there is nothing to hide in sexual intimacy,
and because of my wife behaviour i never see her sexy any more infact even when we are having sex i always think of other women whom i like,
just as i used to do when i masterbated
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