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Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"?

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Question - (11 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This is a sexual question.

Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"- building her level of arousal in steps.

If so I would like some advice- I stimulate my girlfriends vagina, and then

when she's close, I slow it down a bit, or try to keep her on the edge and build it more, but perhaps I'm not doing it right?

Anybody's advice well appreciated

She stated that while the orgasm may be more powerful, it was as if you drew a math equation on a black board, and right at the point where you were about to come up with the answer, the black board got erased (she's scientifically minded)

It was a bit disheartening to hear that

Also how can I give her the most satisfying pleasure ever?! What makes women cra-cra-crazy

Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

I personally like "peaking". The orgasm afterwards is great. If she doesnt like it you could always just try teasing her very slowly and then working up to it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

you're doing it wrong! Don't slow down, SPEED THE HECK UP! Intensify, intensify, intensify. If you give her ANY time to think at all, it all goes away trust me I have the same problem.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntThe "Peaking" methord just isn't what some people want.

Stimulate you girlfriend slowly by touching her body all over and the concentrate touching her thighs then work up to her vagina and touch her softly and gentaly without touching her clit and when shes really arroused start to softly massage her clit. Don't stop when you feel her starting to orgasm as this will disapoint her, just keep going and because you have stimulated her beforehand she will still have a powerful orgasm.

Good luck

Livia

xoxox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009):

In my experience, the 'peaking method' as you call it, results in a loss of interest as soon as she's come down from the high point, sighs of disappointment, rolling over the other way and going to sleep in a huff.

What makes them go crazy? - easy - wipe your dick on the curtains.

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