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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I Just saw an ex of mine for the first time in 5 years last night and now I have mixed feelings. He broke up with me 'cause he said he had some personal issues and needed time to sort things out. I was very sad 'cause I really liked him and I think I had fallen in love with him. But, I went on with my life and he continue his. We kept the friendship, but eventually we went on separate ways completelly and never saw each other again until yesterday.In a meanwhile, I started to date my current bf with whom I have a long distance relationship and with whom I am moving in together in two weeks. My current bf and I had been dating for 5 years now.Seeing my ex broght a lot of memories (Good ones). Our relationship only lasted for a couple of months, but we had a great time. I was so happy when I was with him. The thing is that ever since last night, I can't stop thinking about him. I can't get him out of my mind. Please tell me what does this means? How do I forget him again? Does this means that I am not currently happy? I am just so confused and moving in two weeks makes it a little stressful... Is this a sign? What do I do? I am so confused that I am even crying 'cause I am so afraid of not being happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): The exact same thing happened to me, but i dealt with it wrongly, i made contact with my ex and we began an a affair, i strongly advise against this, i now live with guilt and believe me that is a terrible thing, constantly worrying being paranoid etc. If i was u and i know its hard but do nothing about this, go ahed with plans dont go down this road, its damn bumpy!
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