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writes:Really feeling not so great at the moment... I wrote last week about seeing a guy, thought he was great, told me he had a girlfriend, went mad, calmed down and he said he'd be going back home to sort things out with her with the view to possible breaking up... Never heard from him in a few days then he texted but the texts were a lot less frequent, never explained what happened but arranged to meet me tonight for a 'date'...So he rang me drunk the other night telling me I was so great blah blah... he was being a 'sweet drunk' then said he was definitely bringing me out Monday (tonight) so I believed him. He told me he had issues with women hurting him ( and I've been hurt A LOT too) so I told him I wouldn't ever hurt him... stupidly I said that... Told me to text him the next day. When he's drunk he always lets things out and he remembers them the next day...So two days on haven't heard a word from him. I texted him yesterday to see what the story was about tonight... Ignored me. Texted again about 8 hours later saying let me know but if you can't go its fine. Still haven't heard a thing.I work with him sometimes so I just need to know how to deal with this... I just am a little upset now and really angry. I knew it wasn't going to work out but I didn't think he'd be this nasty. I just want to know should I just not get in contact with him, or text him or what...Thanks for any advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Hug - that's like being stood up - you deserve better.
i would wait and see if he resurfaces (could be hospital) and if not a sensible answer, walk away.
you deserver someone who treats you with respect, not someone who runs away and can't be bothered to text \ phone you. Not worth you time. Go find someone who is worth your time and will give you attention you deserve.
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reader, hutchi  +, writes (11 May 2009):
yeah its hard when u really want someone......but he has a relationship already and u need to walk away hun trust me he will be in touch when he realises ur not chasing him anymore. He cant be happy in his life but whilst he has someone there to take his mind off things (on his terms)so my advice stand strong be confident when u next see him at work look a million dollers and just say hello in passing. you watch him come to u and when he does just say "not interested" good luck
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