How can I tell if he is interested in being more than just friends?

A female age 41-50, *ivine6 writes:

I am attracted to a man i know through work but im not sure if he is just being polite or if he is actually interested in me. We flirt via email on a weekly basis (not daily though)he usually initiates it and keeps touching on a private joke between us and this year we have started catching up for coffee every 3 - 4 weeks and talk for hours. (Even though the company i work for is a client of his im not the person professionally he would maintain the contact with anymore) We definately have chemistry when we are together and he is very complimetary towards me.He is not afraid to tell me that i am attractive but in a subtle way and in context to our conversations. He recently made a comment regarding "how sweet i was" and then blushed. To me these are signs that he is interested but then he hasnt asked for my phone number or made any plans with me outside of working hours, which leads me to believe that he is not interested. We get along really well however im just unsure of what he wants. I dont want to think about a possibility if there is none. Please help me. Your advise on this would be much appreciated.

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