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female
age
36-40,
*acalot
writes:I was seeing someone for about 10 months that i really felt like he could be the one and was scared to tell him i loved him because he didnt consider me his girlfriend and i was being faithful to him tho. That was my fuss between us why couldnt he commit. So I didnt bother with him for about 2 months which i basically felt like i should leave him alone. During our lil break up i didnt sleep with anyone, but, A Friend that is in jail(currently) ive been writng to for about 2 years now knew what i was going through and knew what i have been through, Tells me to wait for him to come home so we can be together because hes alwayz been in love with me. So i said ill wait for him. Cuz Ive alwayz really loved the guy and never thought he would even ask me to be with him. So Now its been over 3 months that i told #2 that ill wait for him but #1 and i hung out about 3 weeks ago and he now wants to make me happy and wants me in his life and he says that "i should of known i was alwayz his and he was alwayz mine" Whatever that means. Like im happy with #1 when im with him and when im not i miss him and want him. But #2 is still in my heart and i think about him and write him like nothing has change when #1 is currently in my life. And right now i feel like i have to choose because he comes home in about 6 months and dont know what to do can someone give me advise!!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Neither find some one new and nice!
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reader, vmadman +, writes (6 March 2009):
The guy in jail is a loser, that's why they put him in jail.
If you like the other guy, give him a shot, but don't give more than you receive, and if he likes to keep things "loose" then go out and flirt with other guys.
Too often we make the mistake of trying too hard, when its the lack of trying that often reels them in.
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