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Should I talk to her about things? Or let it go?

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Question - (6 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ountrygirl99 writes:

I have made out with girls before and thats no big deal. well around a week ago or something a real good friend and i made out,well she for sure likes girls and its a toss up for me. well we kissed again last night and it was a little more hot and heavy we didnt do anything but makeout but she was talking to me about going further with it but then i had to leave because my ride was leaving and the thing is she was quite buzzed i wasnt really. Should i talk to her about it and make sure everything is ok between us or leave it alone or what

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A female reader, loving arms United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

I'm puzzled, talk to her about what? You have kissed on two occassions? Seems like this is building up to something. All you need to decide is, do you want her to be your girlfriend or your friend?

If it's just playing around to you and you want a friend, stop the kissing sessions. If you are hoping for more then the next time the kissing's about to start ask her what she's looking for.

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A female reader, Scullyfan United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

Ok so let me get this straight. U dont really like that much in that way?

But she does?

Maybe you should try to cool things down a bit, or you could carry things on and see how it goes. Its up to you :)

From soph xx

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