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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So my girlfriend dumped me after about a year of dating she started to tell me she still had feelings for me but just did not want a boyfriend...even I love you etc...I'm still so in love with her, perhaps more now because I lost her. After a few months after we broke up we hooked up (no sex) and she kept sayin how it brought back so many memories and what not. A few weeks after we hooked up she kept tellin me she loved me and how she couldnt wait to be with me again. Then it just stopped...btw we are at diff colleges and this happened when we were at home...then she acted weird and basically acted like she just didnt want to talk to me (kept ignoring messages) She still kept calling me love and baby when we'd talk so it confused the hell out of me. Then we had final closure so she said she wouldnt bother me and would wait for me to intiate contact...only 2 weeks passed and she sent me a vid message of our song when we dated from a concert. It was so random and caught me off guard. She kept texting and wanted to know what i'd been doing and such. That was about 3 weeks ago and we talked 2 times since, very very brief messages. First off what's your opinon on her sending that message? I mean I finally started to pull away and then she tried sucking me back in with our song! Next I heard thorugh a mutual friend she's coming home this weekend (havent seen her since we hooked up) and last time we talked she said she'd call this weekend to catch up. Any advice on what to do with her if we see each other??? Everytime we've been alone since breaking up we usually have kissed...let me know, thanks!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Don't be tricked again!! She seems to have a clear MO, she comes to you when she's feeling lonely or when she wants attention, but she doesn't want the full commitment of a relationship. She's keeping you on a string, and that's no good. Don't let her play with you this way, get one step above her and recognize the game she's playing.
If you see her, don't be rude, but don't get mushy. Hi, how are you, I'm fine, see ya. Move on.
You're better than this, sweetness! Good luck!
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Stay away as she is messing with your head! Don't read her msgs or answer her calls! She needs to resolve any issues by herself before giving you mixed msgs! Get over her, you'll become a stronger person without any contact with her! X
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