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writes:Ok me and my boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up. I broke up with him first because he stays in new orleans and I stay in monroe lousisiana and I was tired of being upset by poor communication. I was also interested in other people and I felt bad because I already had a boyfriend. After maybe 3 weeks we got back together but he broke up with me a week later and said it wasn't going to work and I said ok because I still liked other people. 2 months later I still loved him so much and I told him and he hurt me because he said he didn't know if we have a future together anymore and I cried. Then I was on myspace and discovered that he got another girlfriend and he started calling me all types or bitches and hoes and said he didn't love me any more and stuff like that... he hurt me so badly.. they eventually broke up but I found out he turned into a hoe down there and he told me after we broke up he started having sex to get over me. But I wasn't hurt for a while till a month ago we text off and on and I'm hurt because this was my first real boyfriend and I thought we would be together forever.. I need major help on how to stop the pain.. Thanx for reading
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Stop the pain? If you want it to properly go away you'll just have to accept that you 2 aren't together. Maybe learn to accept his feelings as well as he is adjusting himself accordingly. Try to worry about yourself more than worrying about him and questioning why he is doing this and that. Clear that head of yours , its time to move on. Maybe you will have a chance with him again but for now just worry about yourself. GoodLuck
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 You are hurting because you want him and he doesn't want you any more. he is calling you names and saying hurtful things because he also feels hurt and that is his way of projecting those feeling. he doesn't mean to hurt you per se he is just trying to push you away so you won't hurt HIM. I actually thnk that what you did was wrong and think that if you really loved him your eyes shouldn't have wondered and moved on that fast. Time will help you heal and really move on, just wait it out, don't try to numb the pain with a rebound relationship. Good luck hun :)
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