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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:HELP guys my ex boyfriend and I have stayed friends but since 3 weeks ago we stopped talking because apparently I was spreading stuff about him, anyway I still see him down the pub sometimes with his new girlfriend, but he still stares at me, I think he stopped talking to me because of her, he still owes me money every month for something I got him, but he said to my mate that I was going to give her the money but then thought nah she can wait till nxt week (why did he say that) then my friend asked if he had heard from me then he said no not a word then she said you missing her are you then he replied but first pulling a face then looking at his girlfriend who looked at her yeah like a hole in the wall, why did he say that do you think it's like a cover up in front of his girlfriend or what, I'm really confused as why has changed so much. Could be be missing me from thoses little coments I can't understand why he would say like a hole in the wall? Does he hate me that much.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Get the money off him and then move on! This guy has clearly moved on, but you seem to be still clinging on to him. Of course he is going to be different now he has a new girlfriend, this is normal! Would you like it if you were with a guy who was still in touch with the ex?
Dont be one of those girls who turns into the clingy ex. The new girlfriend will be talking about you to her friends, probably laughing at how you still love him but he doesnt want you. Dont let yourself be this person - move on with your life and stop worrying about your ex.
I doubt he hates you and it does seem like a bit of an act especially if he said those things to your friend. But the most important thing here is that you need to stop caring what he thinks! You are not together any more, you split up (for a good reason I imagine) and now he has moved on. This whole friends with the ex thing doesnt work when one person gets a new partner - the new partner will be uncomfortable by the presence of the ex. Just accept that he is no longer going to be in your life in any way and that should help you.
Good luck!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Your ex is your ex...end of. He has moved on! If my boyfriend talked or remained friends with his ex I would feel threatened and I would not allow it. If you are at all mature then you need to stay away! If you contact him then you may cause his current relationship to fail if his girlfriend is anything like me! Stay away, be smart! X
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