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writes:Do guys like women who aren't too anxious to talk with them...in other words those who play a little hard to get more than those who seem like an anxious puppy waiting to hear from them again? Is this a matter of individual preference or it it a universal answer among men in terms of how they want a woman to react to a man's attention? Is it the thrill of the hunt and potential capture that draws the man to a woman? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): From a guy's point of view...it depends on the guy. But I'd say majority love that umm..caveman instinct of hunting since most of them don't even know what they want. But using this knowledge means a stronger edge in the mind games you may be playing with someone, all in the name of Love as someone said. But if you aren't having much luck in whatever department this is, then by all means try something different (but just don't stray too far from yourself)
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 Men who have to chase women that are hard to get basically just don't get it. Get it?
Cat
(secretly LOL)
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (6 March 2009):
 yes they do
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 we are wired in certain ways, men usually, yes, love, the thrill of the hunt. it adds excitement, allure, and the desire to get what is out of their reach, such as a hot girl who has caught their eye. it adds mystery, and a girl whos usually too easy to obtain, usually lasts as quickly as he caught her. it all began since the act of mating itself. since all species have the desire to procreate, as humans its not always that, sex is also meant as an act of pleasure. and of course, the same fallls true for woman who seee a hot desirable male, its not always easy to land a good catch, sometimes as woman we have to also work very hard to catch a hot guy. of course, u know what they say, put one hot female in a room of men, of all ages and stature, married, single, etc, and see how many men will have sex with her if she were to ask whod like to sleep with her. almost 90% will more than happily oblige. but, put a hot man in a room of woman with similiar statures and ages etc, and let him ask whod like to sleep with him, id say way less than 68% would do so. its the way we are wired. but its not across the board. many other things do come into play!!!
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reader, Tomas +, writes (6 March 2009):
Individual preference. I've heard both perspectives. Also a matter of maturity; men and women alike fall especially hard for "hard to get" when younger, as they judge worth based on things other than their own judgment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Because I am a girl I cant give you a guys point of view but I can tell you this. In my past (and most recent) relationships it seemed like when I acted as though I was very busy and wasn't overly anxious to talk to him, that is when he wanted me the most. HE was the one making the calls and asking what was wrong etc. If I was overly eager and constantly wanting his time it was a turn off to him. Either way it is ridiculous that we have to play this game all in the name of love.
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reader, CupCake09 +, writes (6 March 2009):
all men point of views are different therefore, some men may think its a turn off and some men love to play their game...
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reader, anoms +, writes (6 March 2009):
 id say thers alot of that "thrill in the hunt" going on in most mens minds. but you got to know wher to draw the line, some men get bored very easy and just move on to easyer prey so to speak. but personally however i may get the feeling that the person in questian (the game player) could be acting a little rude if my intention were never to get with that person in the first place, if this makes sense to you, so really it depends on the type of guy your trying to attract because it just may have the opposite effect, thanks gudluk.
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