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male
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36-40,
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writes:Hi, I'm in my first year of university. It's been an interesting 7 months, but unfortunately, I haven't had much success with women since I started. Before I came here I was lead to believe that university students have a lot of sex, but in the past 7 months, I haven't been lucky once.I think the problem is that a lot of the places students go are clubs, and I find that in clubs, I just don't know how to behave. I have friends who go to clubs, and then the next day they come in to class talking about how they got lucky, and it's starting to make me feel jealous.I just don't get it. I guess I'm a bit shy around strangers, but there must be some way I can get around that and gain some confidence when talking to girls in clubs. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not just after sex. I would love a relationship, but I haven't found myself in one for a long time now which is all the more depressing.Please help me! How do I approach girls in clubs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUnfortunately my course isn't based on campus, so I rarely go there. As for my course, there are only three girls on the course itself and (to be completely honest) I dated one of them for the first three months of the course. I know I said that I hadn't dated anyone in my time at university, but that was purely because the option of dating somebody from my course disappeared after me and her broke up.
It seems that everybody goes to bars and clubs. Is there nowhere else I can go besides those places and campus where I might meet somebody?
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