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age
41-50,
*ostinthisshame
writes:So I have been with this man for the last 2 years, everything was great till our restaurant shut down and he got a job right away, and it has taken me a little longer to find a job. but i have found one. but in the mean time, he has made himself out to be the key holder of all locks, the ringmaster.I have never ever had such low self esteem or never felt that i was going crazy. But i find myself questioning me, i find myself afraid to ask him questions. Ive tried to play his game and yet it always gets turned around on me, what am i doing wrong? where am i supposed to go from here? HELP ME
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (6 March 2009):
 He sounds pretty manipulative, or amybe he is just getting paranoid about protecting his own assets in these tough economic times.
Key point is however, if you don't feel comfortable even talking to him, and he keeps playing these control games over you, then it may be time to sit down and ask yourself why you are putting up with him. I say leave the guy, especially now that you have a job and can support yourself.
You deserve better, and no one has any right to make you feel like less of a person. Do not give that power to someone. Leave him and show him how powerless he is over you.
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